1 - Yes, SDx_CLK is SDIO_CLK, they just drop the 'IO' and added the x for the case you have more than one. Confusing, I agree.
It says 'place a 0 Ohm resistor that you can later change it for another value as your simulations and tests go on'.
2 - Delay is one thing, delay skew another:

Delay skew is the variation in delays between a number of signals. Keep in mind physical length is not the same as electrical length, that is what you should equalize. I would also be surprised of stating a minimum. I would assume it means there is no point in struggling for a skew less than 50 ps.